Sunday, March 31, 2013

Family History: More Than Just a Hobby





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Everyone knows that having dinners together as a family is important. What you may not know is that what you talk about during this time of family togetherness may be even more important than what you eat.1

In his book, The Secrets of Happy Families: Improve Your Mornings, Rethink Your Family Dinner, Fight Smarter, Go Out and Play, and Much More, author Bruce Feiler discusses a study where Emory University researchers gave children a ‘do you know’ test. Do you know how your parents met? Do you know where your grandparents were born? Do you know what kind of job your grandparents had?

“Children who had the highest scores on the ‘do you know’ test had higher self-esteem and a greater sense of self-control over their lives. The ‘do you know’ test was the single biggest predictor of emotional health.”1

The reason, according to an article about Feiler’s book in the February 13, 2013, issue of Parade magazine, is  that children who know more about their family’s history “have a strong sense of ‘intergenerational self’ — they understand that they belong to something bigger than themselves, and that families naturally experience highs and lows.”




My Grandpa Bill in his WWI uniform and gas mask

Do your kids, nieces and nephews a big favor: tell them about great-grandpa in WWI; talk about where their grandparents (your parents) were born and where they went to school; discuss old family holiday traditions and disclose stories about family members that had illnesses or problems that they overcame.


My great-grandmother Louisa Kniss died after giving birth to my grandma, who survived and was raised primarily by her maternal grandparents in Chippewa Falls, Wis.

Learning your family’s history is not only fascinating, it can heighten your children’s self-esteem, lower their levels of behavioral disturbance, and increase their belief that they can affect the world around them.2

Do you know where your grandparents were born?


LLet me help you find out what parts of history your family had a role in.

Discover your roots and watch the branches of your family tree begin to grow.



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“Control The Chaos With 'Secrets Of Happy Families'”
1http://www.npr.org/2013/02/17/171929472/control-the-chaos-with-secrets-of-happy-families

“An ‘Intergenerational Sense of Self’ Is a Source of Strength for Kids and Family Members”
2http://www.marial.emory.edu/newsletter/Spring%2006/6.pdf

“The Intergenerational Self Subjective Perspective and Family History”
http://www.psychology.emory.edu/cognition/fivush/lab/FivushLabWebsite/papers/intergen%20self.pdf

 


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